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first, be realistic of what you are capable.........if you aren't healthy etc you won't do anybody any good. And if you can't handle it financially it may very well be the last straw.
second, know that although everyone has the best intentions things often do not work out so easily.
My cousins just took care of my aunt. She basically needed round the clock care and it was a major burden on them. They were exhausted from it. One cousin was home all the time while the other works and came in the evenings. Also the bickering over who did what took its toll. She has since passed on and there is a lot of bitterness.
Really, really talk with everyone. Find out what community resources are available. Have a tape recorder at the meeting so there is no doubt as to who has offered to do what. Hate to say this but you can't always count on family.
its never easy but whatever decision you make know that you've done your best.
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Carol
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